Change is Inevitable

The thing that is certain in this uncertain world is only change, but to accept the change is something difficult. We don’t want our favorable situation to get changed and we want the bad time to get change quickly, but this both will get changed, nothing will last forever. , Once Akbar asked birbal tell me sonething which we remembers in  bad time , we will be happy and same if  remember   in happy time, you will feel bad - that was “This too shall pass”.

Life is bouquet of flower with their thorns , so good always comes with bad and bad comes along with good so if we are happy when something good happens then we should also be ready to accept when some situation changes, but accepting both the situations happily , feeling like these condition are on my way just to examine my patience and how thankful I am to god, no matter where we are trapped into. Change is part of life and changes happens for something good. Nothing stays forever, everything is passing show . So embrace the changes happily they are surely for something better.

Other is Hell

Everyone in this world is looking at others , root of all the problems is "Other" , Jealously , Comparison, hatredness, anger all starts when we look at others. Looking at others sometimes makes us feel inferior and sometimes it make us feel superiors both these things are harmful. When we feel superiority we fall in the  proud and when we feel inferior we just underestimate our self both are pitfalls for us. Those who look at others , they don't need to go hell after they die because they are living in hell.
When we let out our house we ask for the rent, we can't let anyone enter in our house without any pay then how can we let everyone to stay in our heart without any pay means how can we give our happiness to others, how can we give remote control of our life to others, we have power to make our self happy we can not rely on others for our happiness. We are creator of our own happiness not others are creator but by mistakes we all have given our controls to others.

So all mean to say is that stop looking at others , in our mind there should not be a single thought that can disturb us , "Other is hell", if we go back to past then we realize that 99 % problems that we had faced in the past was related to others , 90% people in this world are those they do not have any financial and physical problem, they have enough money, good health but bad thoughts, or there  is someone in their mind and heart . The one to who we love and hate both remain in our mind. But the one who we hate all the time irritates us so in that case forgive and forget is the best medicine, if we are forgiving others ultimately by doing this we are giving peace to our self.

So don't let anyone to enter in you mind.

Why everyone in this world is unhappy-

God  is succeed in fulfilling the needs of beggar but failed to fulfill the desires  of a king

The reason of human unhappiness  is not the unfulfilled basic needs but desire of  getting more  Everyone is looking  for the thing which he is not having, a street vendor is unhappy but a billionaire is also unhappy and this process is never ending.

Yesterday we were tense regarding our today, today we are tense for the tomorrow, but we forgot to enjoy present. 

“A Man proposes but God disposes”

A person keeps on planning something, but happens what god has planned  for us and his plan is the best.

Because- God upsets our plan and set his plan for us, because we see present and plan our future accordingly  and he sees future and plan our present.

God to a Human –“You do what you love to do
                                   But happens what I want
                                    So do what I want
                                   Then will happen what you want.”

I believe already God has given us more than requirements, More than our expectations but we are looking others and we are looking only those who have greater than us but if we observe the person who is already having a thing which we are desiring right now , that person is also not happy and asking for the more so even if got the same would we be happy, Perhaps answer is NO.

So enjoy the things that we are already blessed with.