Comparision- Come in Prison

Comparison- End of the growth /Learning

Come in Prison- Means we are limited when we compare, we draw some boundaries but when we do not compare our self we are free with unlimited potential.

Comparison comes in two ways , in one way when we feel our self superior to someone and in other way when we feel inferior. Feeling oneself superior and inferior both are the weaknesses and its harmful in their own way. When we feel our self  superior- Only I can do, if I will not do, the world will come to and end , I am only the best . EGO - read something beautiful about Ego -

अहंकार एक ऐसा नशा है जो पीने वाले के अलावा सबको पता चल जाता है की इसको चढ़ गयी है |

Now other side of comparison Comes Inferiority , when we feel that i am nothing , this kind of feelings comes with a sense of fear also . I can not do anything, i do not posses any quality , we feel our self weak. 

Neither side of comparison is good . One Side Says Only I am good & other side says I am very bad .both comparison leads us towards a downfall. When we compare our self with others we degrade our value, we truly doubt at god's creation. Each one of us is unique and beautiful in their own way, someone has 'A' Quality , someone has 'B' quality , some one has combination of 'A+B' but that individual missing 'C' quality so we all are complete in our own way so we should never compare our self with anyone.

In addition to this , we should always keep our learning window open , to strive hard for our betterment and comparison if should be there then only with our yesterday that am I improving everyday. We should constantly inspire our self from someone but never compare because we are original form, we can not copy anyone but we can follow footstep of our inspirations and our ideals and try to inculcate good habits.

Power of Blessings-Source of happiness

We have chased many things at different point of times , but have we ever thought how to seek blessings . We often feel a sense of emptiness inside in-spite of having everything around , in-spite of achieving all the things which we have dreamt for, what is causing a vacuum inside us , what is missing and  when we will think ,we have received everything except blessings .

Yes,We lack blessings. If we count how many blessings we have received , I believe the figure will not come  more than one or two and its so strange that people all around us are eager to bless us but unfortunately we are not paying attention to all those things where our happiness is hidden and the most beautiful things about blessings is that we do not need to put lot of efforts or to take out special time for this .It is hidden in everything we come across in a day .Lets talk about how -

Our words should be like that when some one hears it out, he fills with energy and he gets life in our words, he should get the hope to live .

 We should listen with empathy , if one wants to take their heart out , we should be ready to listen patiently not with the desire to reply with framed dialogues,but just that a person should feel light.

 A smile can get us lots of blessings , it can make someone's day.

A pure vibes and glance is enough to make someone feel good .

To help someone in any way , if an old lady you found standing in a metro give a person your place to sit , if some one you come across is unable to lift baggage, just give your hand , if you are hiring an  auto sometime gives the driver extra rupees , do not bargain much with street vendors and vegetable sellers , give a tip to waiter on restaurant, get a cup of tea to the maid who clean your house and sometimes just loose the game with kids , show up unexpectedly to the one who is missing you .

There are thousand ways to seek blessings but blessing asks you to do the things without the intention of getting anything back from the person because God is watching everything & he will give us what we are giving to . Do this exercise while going to sleep just spare 2 minutes to rewind the whole day and count the blessings you have received , do not sleep comfortably if its less than 5 in a day and you will see the magic of finding back the happiness which was lost on the way. Just live for others and find your happiness there.

Earn Blessings and Count at the end of the day and increase

your balance everyday , Make sure you are in a profit from every passing day.