Do we really love ourselves?

If we ask anyone do you love yourself? If answer is yes then chances are person is lying let me tell you how?

Do you get angry, do you irritate, and do you get hurt, do you feel sad so how you love yourself? We have not known our self yet, we never appreciated ourselves therefore we always run after someone else. We feel jealous when we see someone is better than us and we start criticizing ourselves, We start doubting the God’s creation but everyone has his own set of qualities “Albert Einstein wrote, “Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.”

If we love ourselves we don’t need the love which we beg from everyone, we shall respect our selves

Ways to love yourself –

1 Accept yourself
2 Appreciate yourself
3 Say loud “ I love Myself” in the mirror
4 Learn to forgive yourself
5 Feel pride when you achieve something


                                

If we love ourselves then only we can love others , Our first priority is to love ourselves in order to love others . Loving oneself will boost the Confidence and will make you achieve what you are truly striving for. It will give you contentment ." Do not forget to love yourself because you are very special and unique if you do not believe just get one person who resembles you in all the attributes ,I bet you can not find it because no one like you exists on this planet. Trust me You are special in your own way.

Words are Invisible yet so powerful

Power of Words - Words are Invisible , We can not see them but they have major impact on our life.

we should be very careful while using words as well while we are receiving them. We do not have control on others but we have control and right to choose our words carefully they should be well thought before they are uttered .Words can make someone's day or spoil it completely  , How we are trapped into this invisible cage .We instantly get happy when  someone praises us , We  love to hear good words about us we never know when we are getting into this trap so badly and It gets difficult to come out of it . We feel words are real but not , they are fake, they are something which are in the air. When we get addicted to hear good and positive about ourselves We are never ready to hear anything unfavorable , Any negativity falls on our ear , we easily get annoyed  because ear is prone to hear good . We just dance to other's tune . We  give certificate to our self on the basis of others' words . We all can recall any past experience when words have impacted  us badly lets create our own unique identity and No matter if someone is praising or Criticizing us we shall move towards our improvement without getting hurt and when it comes how we shall speak so I believe words are something which defines us , we can change our mood but words once spoken can not be taken back hence words should not depend on our mood. We are in charge of our own mood , behavior so we should take a oath that we will not speak the words which hurt others because nature has a rule what you sow shall you  reap,  for a instance if you say a bad word to someone in front of 10 people until and unless you will  receive wrong words from 10 people the nature has not fulfilled its duty same goes for goods words as well . So this world is like an Echo , you will be receiving the repeatedly reflection of your own voice make sure its worth listening.

"You are master of your words until you have not spoken once they are spoken you become slave to it" 

Gift to God- Feeling of gratitude

Gratitude - feeling of expressing thanks  for everything around.

In this era we  all have must experienced that when we ask anyone how is life or how everything is going on we just get the answer " bas chal rahi hai", No one is really happy about what he has or where he is . Everyone is just living the life not actually enjoying . Do we have the answer how its possible . The dreams which are in our eyes someone must be having that pleasure which we are dreaming for but can we really feel that person is happy I believe not really and i think you totally agree on this because that person has now other dreams in his eyes . In this process of getting more we forget what we have to appreciate . We never appreciate how healthy we are , we have enough to spend, we have nice family , we have healthy mind and nature is giving all the important things which are very important for our survival. But we never really appreciate . If we prepare a list of positive things, situation and person around us and same for negatives as well , we will end up realising countless positive blessings around us and one or two negative things but we keep on crying about negatives hence we are not happy .

We have received alot but we have not appreciated what we have received without even asking. If we appreciate we feel happy , we attract more appreciation and this will make the life happier .

Higher the gratitude,  more the happiness  ( Simple rule for enjoying life ).

Happy Independence Day- Freedom from slavery of Thoughts

Today  is 15th Aug  2016 , India has completed 69 years of getting freedom from Britishers , we all know how Mahatma Gandhi had fought for our country and he finally succeeded to get us freedom , India as country got freedom  from Britisher's slavery because Gandhi had believed in Non Cooperation of evil but are we free or we are still slave to our thoughts , are we free from mind or we keep on thinking about what others will say " Log Kya Kahenge" . We all want freedom in all the ways , no one loves boundaries but we all are not free .

We are slave to our thoughts, karma , habits etc we are not truly living we are doing what our mind is instructing us to do, still we are into bad habits which is harming our body or hurting others we as a human are bounded by lot of barriers , we are slave to our own mood we are still cooperating evils in our life  how can we say we got independence lets celebrate true freedom  today by promising our self to get rid of bad thoughts/ karma and habits and let be master of your mind then we will say
"HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY"

Fullfilling a desire is like adding fuel to the fire

We often feel restless in order to fulfill a desire , We strongly believe that once desire will be fulfilled we will be in peace . We put all our effort and energy to get the wish full filled and by god grace it really gets fulfilled but whats next ??

Its the end , Full filling the desire is not the end of desire .

When desire fulfills, We feel we don't want anything now and we really feel satisfied and happy but for a time being not always . The timeline of being happy after fulfilling a desire is till the time we get another wish in the pipeline . So the state of happiness does not come when we fulfill a wish but actually when we realize to feel that I do not want anything. Because desires have not end, it just makes us restless when the same fulfilled next always is on the door to enter and make us dissatisfied hence if our desire does not get fulfilled it may be end but if its being fulfilled surely not an end.