Art of Giving- Way to Happiness

Have we ever realized that we are always in the receiving mode , we have just learnt to receive .

We want to receive love, respect, money , fame etc. This is one of the reasons of our dissatisfaction.

We have never learnt to give . We forget "Respect earns respect, Love earns Love" . The one who gives is always richer than one who receives  and sometime the one who you ask to respect you, love you may not have the thing which you are asking for then how can a person provides you the thing which he does not possess.  Lets take an example a beggar comes to you so instead of giving him the thing what he is begging for , if we start asking the same from him so can we tell who we are.

Why can not we give the things which we truly believe in receiving.

I believe we always look to receive love who we have given , same goes for respect, care etc but we forget sometime you may get the same thing but in a different form lets  say you given respect to 'A' but may be you are receiving the same thing but not from 'A' but from 'B','C','D', We hardly appreciates  such thing because  we want in the same form but blessing showers from different corners.  Believe me, lets start realizing!
 

We have never experienced the pleasure & happiness in giving, we have only  experienced temporary happiness and lasting pain in the process of receiving. We should try the the pleasure which is hidden when you give something , Its seems tough while giving without expectation of receiving something in return.but believe me its something we truly needs .

We should try the art of giving and experience the treasure which is hidden into this which we may experience in the form of blessings . It involves sacrifices but its a beautiful feeling . Try it once I bet it would be an overwhelming experience.

Be Humble-A tree laden with fruits always bends low

We all have heard that  the stiffest tree is most easily cracked, while the bamboo or willow survives by bending with the wind,  I refer this quote because we often become arrogant when we receive Status ,Power, Fame, Prestige ,Respect , Love  but we do not know its matter of time , Today time is in our favour so we shall enjoy whatever is coming on your way but we should not forget that all this is transient and carries expiry date with this.

 

Often we lost our humanity  We behave like we are leading this world we forget that  we are just a puppet and God has given instructions to the nature to nurture us with his materialistic property but Instruction could be reversed anytime without any prior notice hence we  should always staty humble . Human has tendency to use its power to the some who is not equally powerful . No matter who we are and who we are dealing with (Poor, Illiterate, Old,) we should not forget our humanity .

We should be flexible not stiffed . 

 

 

Being stiff is very easy but to mould oneself  is not that easy as it seems and the brave man is the one who can do the tough task but once when mould ourself we are the true winner sometime being defeated is real victory but for that we have to shed our ego for a moment .