Dukh Daru Sukh Rog Bhaiya "दुखु दारू सुखु रोग भइआ " - "Suffering is medicine and Pleasure is disease"

Beautifully Said in Gurbani " Dukh Daru Sukh Rog Bhaiya"

Dukh means Sufferings, Pain, Problems are medicine & Pleasure , Comforts are diseases.  When we are in pleasures, comforts we forget to remember God. In pleasures our Ego gets inflated , we get addicted to all the comforts and when we do not get the same comfort, we get irritated . All the pleasures when come, it ends up making us blind , we can not see anything beyond that , We assume that it is going to last forever. We get so busy and involved in this pleasures that we forget God and we get intoxicated with madness. Few minutes pleasures followed by everlasting pain. We enjoy for few minutes and then get punished when things which we believed were true, get disappeared .

 While Dukh(suffering)is a blessing which reminds us God every moment. Very beautifully said that who God loves, bestowed them with three things Disease, poverty & defame.  Dukh is remembrance of God , Suffering awakens us while pleasures makes us sleep so tightly that we are unable to open our eyes to the truth. As medicine is always bitter but it is for our betterment , it helps us to retrieve our lost health similar suffering is the gift given by God to regain our lost senses in pleasures. One who always remembers God, will take both equally whether its suffering or Pleasure,its acceptable to him, he never cribs in problems and never inflated with pleasures. Sukh never comes alone it has its partner attached thats Dukh and its cycle which has both ends so take  things easy and always feel blessing in disguise.Everything is a passing show will pass by its own, we shall always feel happy and blessed.

Wings of Freedom- Flying Away from Expectations

Expectations- A Borrowed Pain which does not actually belongs to us.

We have set our expectations according to our measurements and bought pain accordingly.

We have ever experienced any hurt, pain which we feel is given by someone , This is nothing just unfulfilled expectations and no one has ever told us that you can have at least this expectation from me. Expectations always hurt us , Sometimes when person fulfills our expectations, we are bound to either expect the same from that person or our level of expectations get increased and When a person turns out different than our expectations ,We feel hurt but it is no where written that a person or a situation will always work as per our will.We have assumed that everyone should behave as per my will, do we act as per others' choice, do we fulfill all the expectations of others, Can we always behave the way other wants us to behave like, I believe answer is No, if we can not fit in that situation , how can we ask entire world to work as per our wish, Every human being is free and Freedom is something which everyone  in this world will aspire and unnecessarily we are binding ourselves and other person too by our expectations while other person might not have any idea what we are expecting and we are just creating a feeling of a pain .

 Expectations are like we are in a Cage and the key of opening the cage is with someone else and the   one according to his Time,Comfort & Wish will come and make us free, till we have to experience  the helpless of making our self free and fly away. It is up to us to fly away or to wait for a person to  come and open the cage. It is our choice because the Key is with other person but cage is made up of just a glass we can break it from inside and can go out but breaking a glass requires pushing it hard against our comfort because breaking a glass might hurt our hands but will make us free similarly making our self free from expectations require a little push against our comfort of keeping expectations from everyone but its permanent freedom from the pain which we are not destined for.

"Lets break this fragile glass and fly away as we have wings of freedom"