Its nothing just a "Mind Game"

How surprisingly it is, a mind which has no physical & financial power  yet so powerful which is beyond any other power.

Mind or I can give it other name is Mann "मन".

Our physical power is 2% and 98% its mental power or mind power .Our body reacts on the basis of signal given by mind.

let’s take an example you are so tired and unable to get up , you feel like you are unable to walk now even a single step , your body has no power this is the signal given by mind that you worked hard and you are tired now , you cannot do anything , but suddenly you realized that your home has caught fire, you will not even for a second feel like you are tired and you will put your all efforts to extinguish fire , mean to say this is just that energy was within but priority was different , let’s assume you cannot run and suddenly you badly followed-up by a stray dog , you will start running like anything, so mind is there which rules the entire body.

If our mind is strong we can uproot the mountains too. If our mind accepts I am well, I am happy then physical and a financial thing has no power to make us feel that I am unwell. If our mind convinces us that I am blessed, I am rich, I have received a lot from nature, god & my surroundings then nothing in this world can make us feel low. Happiness is nothing it’s just a state of mind.

If we are waiting that tomorrow will bring me happiness so it’s just a false hope because tomorrow never comes and it brings its own challenges. Stop waiting for celebration tomorrow, let’s celebrate today. Mind it so powerful depends what you feed it with positivity, patience, love & gratitude.

let’s create the world of our choice by giving signal to mind of our choice

Desires Make us beggar while desire less makes us king

I feel the other name to be given to desire is just being sick.

Let’s talk about symptoms of Sickness -

Restlessness

Irritation

Impatience to recover fast

We feel the same when we have any desire.

Imagine whenever in our life we have come across any desire, we feel impatient to fulfill the same but we forget the fulfillment of desire is not end of desire, it’s just a gap till we are again trapped by other desire and this cycle goes on and we keep on experiencing the relief and pain, happiness and suffering goes hand in hand. This is nothing just fulfillment and Un- fulfillment of desire which keeps us happy and sad. We have grown up experiencing the same without realizing when and where is its stop. We often get confused if we will not desire, we will not grow. If we will get satisfied we will stop where we are, but do you think that our prayer gets answered or we get what we are destined for so why to ask for something which is already in our destiny and no one can give us something which we are not destined for .So why we are making desires, completion of desire is just like adding fuel into the fire there is already a fire which is burning every moment and we are adding fuel into that to make it worse, once a desire gets fulfilled , next is in pipeline we feel there is a single desire but it has a long chain attached to. We feel on completion of our desire we feel a sense of achievement, sense of happiness but this happiness lies with us till the next gets emerged , so how peaceful we will be when there is no desire, there are efforts, there is planning but no desire . Why to buy sadness when we are meant to be at peace.

“Man Proposes and God disposes “let’s stop the fight between our wish and God’s will, lets match it and feel as everything happening from my will and see the magic of our peace."

Attachment- Main reason of our Suffering and Pain

Attachment to anything and anyone brings only pain and sorrow in our life .If we have ever experienced pain in our life then somewhere it’s because of attachment , attachment to the place, attachment to the person , attachment to the position etc., we are living in the world which is full of uncertainty , filled with changes only and we are attached to the things which will change for sure , nothing remains permanent and we get attached badly to the things and people believing that it will never change , will never leave us , will stay with us, it’s great myth. The world is changeable and changes are taking place every moment, somewhere things have already changed, somewhere things are about to change, no one can refrain himself from changes, everything is changeable except the truth which is true through ages

Aad Sach, Jugaad Sach, Hai Bhee Sach, Naanak Hosee Bhee Sach

Let’s enjoy at the fullest whatever we are with at this moment , because everything is for us but nothing belongs to us forever.

let’s say we go to any of the five star hotels to enjoy our vacations, where there is good staying and dining arrangement for us, all the facilities are there for us but nothing is ours, we came there for some time and then we have to go back , we cannot take even a spoon with us from there, else we will be called as thief and we enjoy without any attachment in hotel as we very well know that we have to go back , same we have to return everything to God, it’s for us to enjoy not to take it with us, but in hotel we remember that we have to go back while in life we forget we have come to this world with return ticket.Lets not get attached to one thing, we shall start loving this as everything is a passing show , lets watch instead to become its form.

Another name of disappointment and pain-Attachment

Sit with yourself- Make an appointment with yourself

 In this era where the life is so fast and we all are just running , we do not have time to sit and relax, we feel the need to talk to others but have we ever felt the need to talk to ourselves, in morning when we wake up, we just rush for our regular routine , we do not take out 5 minutes to feel the need to sit and ask that what is going through my mind , what I am still looking forward, what is upsetting me, what is driving me , what makes me feel good, what gives me sad feeling , what I am doing , what I am thinking , no we just do not feel the need to get ourselves questioned , to know our inner status, how stable I am from inside , whatever is happening outside , how much impact it has on my mind . Sometimes  we need to pause at some moment and rewind what I am doing and why I am doing all this, it’s time to stop and come back with double force. We forget our purpose what we have come for in this world, what is costing me my peace of mind , the ultimate aim of my life is just “ peace of mind “, Do not give it to anyone , no one  deserves to take your peace , its solely yours , there is price for everything in this world so peace of mind also comes with high price .The price that we have to pay for is to control all our senses with all the force which compels us to do an act, to speak a word, to think anything wrong which gives a pleasure , gives us a temporary happiness but make sure takes our permanent peace away, Ready to pay this high price to feel blissful.

Let’s do not procrastinate anymore , take an appointment with yourself & search your peace which is within.

"Words are free , how you use may cost you "

Words - " We learn to speak when we are just 3 years old but what to speak , I guess it takes entire life to learn." Words are not visible yet so powerful ", most of the times if we have been troubled, we must have realized,  its just because of our own words , Words actually do not carry any physical existence , its just a sound which goes into air & disappears forever but the place it inhabits in a person's mind , it remains forever & no amount of apology against a wrong word can bring you the same relation , same person back. A beautiful word can make some one day ,can give someone power , can get you blessing, our words should be like that people love to hear us.

we fire off our reply without thinking much through, sometimes without a wrong intention we utter something which we were not supposed to, we reveal out may secrets which should have been very discreet . "You are ruling & you are master of your words till it is inside , once the same has been uttered now it is master & we have to be aware of its consequences." A beautiful word will not cost us anything , though it will get us happiness .

A word once spoken from , it flies with air and will come back to us at the most unexpected time , and till it will come back to us through some other person , it remains in air , so please make sure whatever is been said , we should have heart to embrace the same as it is awaiting to come back weather a beautiful word or a harsh word we have to welcome with whole heart .Lets be aware of our words , it should be so much powerful that it gives life to someone .

W-               Wait & Weight -     Is it important to speak, do my word or silence carries  weight
O-                Observe-                 Is it the right situation, person, time to speak
R-                Rate-                      How I rate my words before I give it to someone else
D-                Decide                     Now it needs to be spoken or not

Why i loose my peace of mind?

We all must have felt ourselves bit disturbed at times, but have we ever sat down & ask ourselves who has caused me  this pain, who has taken my happiness away & left me with this sad feeling and when we try to see the reason around, we will feel many people and many reasons behind our this feeling Why but this is nowhere true, because we have lost our peace in mind so the thing you will find where it has been lost , so peace will be there in the mind only.

We often say I am disturbed because he said wrong words, he behaved badly, I could not get this which I was dreaming for etc., there are multiple reasons  but if we again see the list of the reasons behind my sadness, there is no one outside, it’s my thoughts/Ego/Desires which are bothering me .Mahatma Buddha has said one of very beautiful thing –If your thoughts do not disturb you even God does not have power to disturb you. No one from outside has power to make us feel good or bad , we are enough powerful for our happiness .

Our thoughts are very powerful and we often lose our peace of mind , our peace of mind is the most expensive thing in this world, behind our every act, word and whatever we do , we want peace of mind & we need to make it that much expensive so that  no one can buy this from us.

       

What I choose whole day – to be happy or sad

What’s my first thought when I get to see the new day, the moment I wake up, what I Feel one more boring day, one more day when I have to face all those things which I faced yesterday, I nowhere thanked god that I am alive and fortunate enough to see new day, I radiated energy of complaints & I will attract negativity and complaints as I begin my day with the same, instead I could think wow, I got one more day to do what I planned yesterday but could not do, I got one more day to seek blessings which I missed yesterday, I got one more day to fix all those things which went worse yesterday. Thank God for giving me one more opportunity.

Whole day I come across many people of different nature & I keep on adjusting my happiness on the basis of behavior they had toward me, I do not  have control on anyone but can I control my mood , instead of controlling everyone’s  actions , I  can control my reactions to them. If we have ever realized how difficult is to control our own reactions. We can really understand controlling ourselves is the toughest job then controlling others is next to impossible.

When we realize that I am in charge of my own happiness, I believe no one can make me sad as Mahatma Budda said if your thoughts do not disturb you even God does not have power to make you sad so whole day whether we are alone or we are with someone, we are always with our thoughts hence our thoughts should be beautiful , positive . If we are charged, whosoever will be in our touch will blossom .

Lets spread the fragrance of happiness all around .Be happy and make others happy.