Expectations- A Borrowed Pain which does not actually belongs to us.
We have set our expectations according to our measurements and bought pain accordingly.
We have ever experienced any hurt, pain which we feel is given by someone , This is nothing just unfulfilled expectations and no one has ever told us that you can have at least this expectation from me. Expectations always hurt us , Sometimes when person fulfills our expectations, we are bound to either expect the same from that person or our level of expectations get increased and When a person turns out different than our expectations ,We feel hurt but it is no where written that a person or a situation will always work as per our will.We have assumed that everyone should behave as per my will, do we act as per others' choice, do we fulfill all the expectations of others, Can we always behave the way other wants us to behave like, I believe answer is No, if we can not fit in that situation , how can we ask entire world to work as per our wish, Every human being is free and Freedom is something which everyone in this world will aspire and unnecessarily we are binding ourselves and other person too by our expectations while other person might not have any idea what we are expecting and we are just creating a feeling of a pain .
Expectations are like we are in a Cage and the key of opening the cage is with someone else and the one according to his Time,Comfort & Wish will come and make us free, till we have to experience the helpless of making our self free and fly away. It is up to us to fly away or to wait for a person to come and open the cage. It is our choice because the Key is with other person but cage is made up of just a glass we can break it from inside and can go out but breaking a glass requires pushing it hard against our comfort because breaking a glass might hurt our hands but will make us free similarly making our self free from expectations require a little push against our comfort of keeping expectations from everyone but its permanent freedom from the pain which we are not destined for.
"Lets break this fragile glass and fly away as we have wings of freedom"
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